What is FRIEND?

When mention about FRIENDS,everyone start to think about their friend.Some of them might also start to count how many friend they have since their childhood time.Everyone must have friend at least one in their entire life.Sometimes I asked myself, did I really understand what is the meaning of FRIEND?Do I really have a good FRIENDSHIP with my friends?Why people need friend in their life? why we being a friend for so many people at the same time? what is the real rules in friendship?All these question comes into my mind.

Why I choose to post this topic? Because sometimes I don't know what to do and when I don't know what to do, I alway think about this kind of silly question.SometimesI asked myself,why should I care about all those thing.Even sometimes I really crazy and I asked myself,who is the first person who introduced "A,B,C" AS a letter,who is the first personthat introduced the number, who is the first person that tell the others that the 'tree' is the tree, etc...But it is not wrong to create curiosity in our mind right.Anyway, lets go back to the main topic that is FRIEND.Because I love to visit my "Uncle Google", I asked "him" to explain me the meaning of FRIEND.Below here I attached some meaning that attract my attention that can be shared with everyone.

I'm not simply put the quotes below just for fun. Here, I post the quotes that reflect my thinking about FRIENDSHIP. I just don't know how to describe it with my own words so I need help from these quotes to explain to everyone on what I understand about FRIENDSHIP.
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• "True friendship is like sound health; the value of it is seldom known until it be lost." - Charles Caleb Colton
• "My friends are my estate."- Emily Dickinson
• "Don't walk in front of me, I may not follow.Don't walk behind me, I may not lead.Walk beside me and be my friend." - Albert Camus (also attributed to Maimonidies). Sent by clovers
• "Friendship is unnecessary, like philosophy, like art... It has no survival value; rather is one of those things that give value to survival." - C. S. Lewis
• "The better part of one's life consists of his friendships." - Abraham Lincoln
• "Friendship: a building contract you sign with laughter and break with tears."
• "Anybody can sympathise with the sufferings of a friend, but it requires a very fine nature to sympathise with a friend's success." - Oscar Wilde
• "If you judge people, you have no time to love them." - Mother Teresa
• "Without friends no one would choose to live, though he had all other goods." - Artistotle
• "Friendship is always a sweet responsibilty, never an oppourtunity." - Kahil Gibran
• "Friendship that flows from the heart cannot be frozen by adversity, as the water that flows from the spring cannogt congeal in winter." - James Fenimore Cooper
• "Best friends are like diamonds, precious and rareFalse friends are like leaves, found everywhere."- Anoymous
• "If all my friends were to jump off a bridge, I wouldn't jump with them, I'd be at the bottom to catch them"
• "Everyone hears what you say. Friends listen to what you say. Best friends listen to what you don't say."
• "How do you know you've found your best friend. When you are ready to talk to them about anything, even though they know everything about you already."
• "A world without a friend, what would it be? It would be like a world without water, something you need. Friends are like glass, once broken, they are hard to fix. Keep your friends, as you would keep your water."
• "A friend will be there for you when things are good...but a TRUE friend will be there for you when things are good and also when things are very bad...and just when it feels like you will never smile again...she can put a smile on your face with just with a hug!"
• "Have no friends not equal to yourself."- Confucious (551 - 497 BC) Chinese philosopher.
• "To like and dislike the same things, that is indeed true friendship."- Sallust (86 - 334 BC) Roman historian
• "Friendship with oneself is all-important because without it one cannot be friends with anyone else in the world."- Eleanor Roosevelt
• "A true friend stabs you in the front."- Oscar Wilde
• "The most beautiful thing we can experience is the mysterious, it is the true sourse of art, science, and friendship."- Albert Einstien
• "Never shall I forget the days I spent with you. Continue to be my friend, as you will always find me yours."- Ludwig van Beethoven
• "Walking with a friend in the dark is better than walking alone in the light."- Helen Keller
• "In the end, we will remember not the words of our enemies, but the silence of our friends." - Martin Luther King Jr.
• "A friend in need is a friend indeed."- Latin Proverb
• "Life without a friend is like death without a witness."- Spanish Proverb
• "THERE ARE MANY TYPES OF SHIPS. THERE ARE WOODEN SHIPS ,PLASTIC SHIPS, AND METAL SHIPS. BUT THE BEST AND MOST IMPORTAINT TYPES OF SHIPS ARE FRIENDSHIPS."- OLD IRISH QUOTE
• " A friend is one to whom one may pour out all the contents of one's heart, chaff and grain together, knowing that the gentlest of hands will take and sift it, keep what is worth keeping and with a breath of kindness blow the rest away."- Arabian Proverb
• "It is better to be in chains with friends , than to be in a garden with strangers." -Persian Proverb

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******That's all the quotes I can use to describe my understanding on FRIENDSHIP.What can I summarized here is everyone need friends in their life.No one want to be lonely because when we have friend, at least we have a partner to share our happiness and sadness. Even sometimes, the beginning of the ENEMY is from the FRIEND relationship.someone will not be someone else ENEMY unless there are friend before.********

Summary of the week II

This month(generally) and this week(specifically) is the busy week. Many things happen but not in my life but in my surrounding. This situation make me think a lot (although I should more worried about my study and final year project).Sometimes I asked myself, Why I must concern about what happen around me? Then there is no answer for that question instead of I'm still thinking and concern about all these thing.



1. Olympic Games in Beijing 2008

Yesterday I watched the Badminton semifinal match between our Malaysian player,Lee Chong Wei and Korean player Lee Hyun Ill.it is the unforgettable memory for all Malaysian.Since 1956 Malaysia join the Olympic Games, we only got 1 silver(badminton-"beregu"-1996) and 2 bronze(badminton-"beregu(1992) and individual(1996)).that is the best achievement by Malaysian athletes so far. After that, Olympic Games 2000 and 2004, Malaysian didn't won any medal.but yesterday, all Malaysian proud of Lee Chong Wei.He manages to make himself go to the final that is tomorrow.This mean he conform the Silver medal for Malaysia but there is still the chance for Malaysia to win Gold medal for olympic and if he manage to win it, he is the BEST and break the record for Malaysia.But, in the middle of the happiness still got some Malaysian hope he lose.WHY? Because the Malaysian government already announce that whoever athlete bring back GOLD Medal will be given RM 1 million as an incentive.Those people think that is the stupid decision because it will waste the people money. But for me, I think it is the right decision.

REASON: Malaysia want Gold medal in Olympic and it is something that everybody will do in order to motivate people to perform well.Imagine that those disagreed people participate in a competition where our country really want to win it for a long time then the government motivated them by giving a great big incentive,for sure they will grab the chance.In this matter, I hope people dont think negative way.Just bring along the spirit "MALAYSIA BOLEH". Beside that, I'm sure that Lee Chong Wei not doing this for the sake of becoming the instant Millionnaire.For the sport person or someone that participate in the competition, what they want is to WIN and perform the best they can.There is no issue that they really want the incentives.No one play for become a loser. Eceryone want to WIN and Chong Wei has proof it that he want to WIN and get his own satisfaction with his performance.Anyway Wish him good luck for tomorrow match."MALAYSIA BOLEH" Spirit must comes first.





2. UiTM issues

This is the popular issue for this week.The Selangor MB want to oepn 10% quota for non-bumiputera to become UiTM students and this issue get a fast feedback from evryone in this country.All UiTM student around Malaysia do the demonstration in order to show their feeling.They said that UiTM is for bumiputera and it will become like that forever.I always keep myself up tp date with this issue because i love to hear feedback from diferent perspectives.In my own opinion there is pro and con with that announcement by Selangor MB and I'm sure he has his own reason for making that kind of announcement.Of course my first impression when I heard about that news, I'm not agree with it. But when I think again and review the comment from other people through the news i watched from TV and read from local newspaper, I think it is not a bad decision.Sometimes people need to think outside the box.i agree that UiTM is for Bumiputera but sometimes we need to make our life more challenging.if the bumi's know that there always a place for them to study, they will not think about competition.they must realize that sometimes something that we own will be taken by others and before that happen we must be prepared to face it.in this case, i think they just accept the news and what they can do is prove to the others that the Bumi's still can perform well although there were non-bumi's compete with them.Sometimes competition is the best way to measure our real performance.



thats only my opinion regarding this issues and im sure that this issue will be settled as soon as possible because the main objective of going to university is to study and gain as many knowledge as we can, NOT to make ourselves involved in these kind of issue that everyone not sure when it will be ended.





3. MERDEKA

August is the most precious month for Malaysia. 31 August 1957 is the date where we are free.This year, Malaysia is 51 years old and it has achieve a lot since that day.This is MERDEKA MONTH but i'm very sad with the current situation.Everyone busy with politic issue here and there, criminal case,demonstration until they forget that they must make a reflection for this month.they must stop all these thing and work together to appreciate this month.Even until now, I haven't seen any advertisement that remind all the Malaysian that this is MERDEKA MONTH and everyone should celebrate it. I'm very sad. Although I'm not really know well about my country history but what I know is the effort that make by the elders to free the country from the British colonization.I think everyone should read back the history book and study well about the country history.sometimes I asked myself, can I survived if I was born during the British,Japan or communist time.Heard the stories from the elders and read the book already make me feel fear and scare.Luckily I was born after merdeka.Actually sometimes I felt very bad when i'm not appreciate the peace and freedom of my country.its like i'm not appreciate the effort of the elders (those who work hard for independent of Malaya).Anyway, for this 51years of independence, i hope that Malaysia more success.





4. My student Life

Arrrgggghhhh.....the normal situation as like other students.got assignment, test, project and friend issues.but I can handle it for this time being since its become my routine now.I always told myself that everything is depend on myself.if i can manage myself well, i can do it.but if i fail to manage myself, that mean i fail in my life.so why should the word TENSION comes into my mind.I should be happy because i got a chance to experience all these.



OH....my stomach already sing a song.time for lunch.hihihihi

What is Love???

Last Tuesday is the last episode for drama series "SinDarEla".The drama is ok and i like the ending of the story because it different from the normal ending of Malay drama where the hero must be together with the heroin.Of course when we watched love story drama or movie, we want the ending to be happily ever after and think that the hero meant to be together with the heroin.Frankly speaking, first I'm very upset with the ending where the heroin not choose anyone but when I think again and relate it to reality life, I think this kind of ending usually happen in the real life.Here I paste the the heroin monolog at the end of the story.After read these monolog, I start to think that not all lovers meant to be together for the whole life.The phrase "live happily ever after" just a tagline for a fairytale.Life is not worth it if there is no obstacle and hurt.Sometime we need to experience to be hurt before we find happiness.but there is no guarantee or warranty that the happiness will last forever.


Dalam hidup cinta boleh datang dan pergi
ketawa kerananya
senyum kerananya
menangis semahunya
sakit

Bermula dengan persahabatan
segelintir pula cuma sedar bila ia hilang
semata-mata untuk rasa dihargai
ada yang percaya cintanya untuk selamanya

for some of us
finally we realized that life is not a fairytale
we need to start over

demi sebuah impian
tak salah untuk kita berkorban
bila mana hati kita rapuh
menghadapi realiti
nangis...nangis semahunya
tapi jangan biarkn hati kita terus rebah

sejauh mana kita kenal hati budi seseorang
kita tetap tak boleh buat penilaian

in life
we have to learn to let go
and keep on moving
the more you wait
the more time you missed

bermula dengan hati, angan dan mimpi
sebesar mana pun kedudukan kita
segagah prinsip
mampu goyah
because of love
because we are human beings
mudah lemas bila cintanya lemah
kita harus kuatkan hati
percaya naluri
just admit it!
lafazkan cintaku mahukan dia.....

dalam kehidupan kita
cinta tak semestinya bersatu
terutamanya cinta pertama

feel like long time haven't update my blog.Not because i forgot that i have a blog but because i feel lazy to write plus the network connection from my room is not that good.anyway, today almost two weeks i'm back to my campus life for sure as a student.nothing different except now i was in final year and final semester.got few more month to go before i complete my study in this university.my next pit stop after this?I don't want to think about it first because i'm scared to draw and color my future life.Before this I love to plan everything for my future but after seeing many failure in future life of other people that close to me, that make me scared of thinking about my future.but what i'm still believe until now is I want to change my life as well as my family life.I want my family get a better life than before.Actually I'm proud of my parent.They not get well education as other that were in the same age as them.Their highest education was primary six but they have their own ambition but as people always said "we just plan,God will do the others".When I was a little kid, i hate when people said like that because that means that person do not want to try their best to make their plan become real.but now i understand, it doesn't mean that person not put their effort but sometimes God have something for us.That's why until now I limit any thinking about my future plan.I just do what i want to do today in hoping that there got one more chance for me tomorrow.

Forget about the nonsense talking above.lets see the picture below:

Last weekend, I went to Pangkor with four of my friend,Wani, Fiera,Megala n Siti Fatimah.We enjoy our weekend there and release all the tense before we were attack by another "Tension Virus". I love the scenario there and feel peace and harmony there. The first picture is the Ferry Terminal in Lumut. Then the nice stone architecture that resemble the head of the crocodile in Coral Island and the last one is the "ikan paus" head.So amaze with the God creation.Just look at the picture for a moment and think.

Oh Man!!I forgot that tonight i want to call my mum.so i stop here and continue some other time

June's Notez

LOSS

before holiday, my grandmother(mother of my mother) pass away.50+ day after that(during holiday) the other grandmother(my father's mother sibling) pass away.Then 7 days after that my cousin ,Abg Jefri who live in Kedah pass away. this year is a big loss in our family.Hopefully there's no more loss in our family because we can't stand it anymore.We know that we only a human and it is God work but we pray for the best in our family.

NEW BORN

iN the early June, my cousin, Norafidah got a baby girl.She was the same age like me but she build her family early than me.Her baby was named after two her favourite character in a local telenovella that was aired in TV3, Spa Q.So the baby was named Qistina Aleya.

MONEY

Many thing can be related to money until people create a phrase "No Money No Talk"
what so good about money?I agree people need money but sometimes money can be a biggest enemy in human life.anything can happen because of money.Some people say that money is more powerful than relationship n love.In other word Money can buy love.But that love is not an everlasting love.
I really hate to hear that some people broke their family ties because of money.Siblings fight each other because of money.really hate to hear that.this problem will continue until when me myself dont know.I really hate it.I agree that people cannot live without money but they must make sure that they will not be control by MONEY.Let us control MONEY not Money control us.Why this become my subtopic?Because, my family also faced the bad experience with the person who was controlled by money and until now the problem is not solved although we treats these STUPID Person like usual.Now they live happily with other people money n forget about those people.before this, when they was in difficult situation,they like a street and dirty cat come beg for money but once they get the money, they deny everything.Really hate these kind of STUPID N GREEDY people.Just leave it to God.We juz pray for their happiness so that they can live "HAPPILY EVER AFTER" so that they will not come to us like a dirty street cat.



Think that all for today...feel very boring...